Important Things to Remember for Long-Term Career Success
When you give people the power to make choices while you are away, you show you are a leader who grows strong employees, not someone who blocks progress. This builds trust with your staff and helps the business grow because it doesn't rely only on you being there.
Creating a simple guide for only true "emergencies" teaches your coworkers how to solve problems on their own. Over time, this protects your well-being and ensures you come back to work feeling fully rested, which is key for doing high-quality work and avoiding exhaustion.
Adding an extra "catch-up day" to your schedule when you get back lets you organize your work before everyone else needs your time. This helps you stay in charge of your schedule and avoids the instant stress of a huge pile of work, helping you seem calm and organized.
The Vacation Problem
Setting an automatic "Out-of-Office" reply and just hoping you have the strength to stay offline is a strategy that fails. This idea of a "Hard Stop" treats vacation like a test of your self-control rather than a sign that your work system is broken.
This leads to "Thoughts Leaking Out", where your mind stays worried because you stopped the message, but not the duty. You then pay a huge "Cost to Return": a giant stack of unread emails and stalled tasks that wipes out all the rest you got within two days of being back.
To truly get your time back and stay sharp, you need to stop trying to avoid work and start designing a system where work doesn't need you. This requires a Plan for Having a Backup.
The scale of the problem is real. According to a 2025 survey by infeedo, 70% of workers do some form of work during vacations, and 52% fear the work backlog they'll face upon return so much that it prevents them from fully resting. Research published in the Journal of Happiness Studies found that vacation benefits don't fully take hold until after 8 days away, meaning short trips with work check-ins don't give your brain enough time to recover.
"The number one driver of remote work burnout is an inability to disconnect from work. Leaders who model real disconnection during time off give their teams permission to do the same."
The Backup Plan: Designing for Your Absence
- → Instead of hoping things don't break, you use your time away as a "stress test" for your team.
- → Give away real power to make big decisions, not just small tasks.
- → Create a clear guide for who to ask when something needs fixing.
- → Show your most valuable skill as a high-level professional: the ability to build a system that works even if you are not there. This is your biggest advantage for top roles.
The Decision Guide for Disconnecting
As someone who manages products and technology, I see vacation time not just as rest, but as a crucial maintenance period for your most important tool: your mind. To avoid burning out and keep performing well, you need a clear plan for checking out.
The chart below shows three ways to unplug. Choose the level that fits your current job and how mature your team is.
Level 1: The Basic Shield
If You Are:
Just starting out / Doing individual tasks. The goal is to stop the habit of looking at your phone.
What You Do
- Auto-Reply: A clear "Out of Office" email stating when you return.
- Mute Alerts: Turn off all notifications on Slack, Teams, and Email.
- Block Calendar: Mark yourself as "Busy" for the whole vacation time.
What You Gain:
Stops Work From Reacting: This first step stops the immediate noise. It tells others you are busy, so people who forgot to check your schedule won't bother you right away.
Level 2: The Task Handoff
If You Are:
Professional / In charge of others. Your team needs to know they have permission to move projects forward while you are away.
What You Do
- Handoff Sheet: A simple document showing active projects, where they stand, and "What to do if this specific thing happens."
- Named Backup: One specific person allowed to make choices for you.
- App Removal: Temporarily delete work apps from your phone.
What You Gain:
Stops Risk of Being the Only Key Person: By passing on knowledge before you leave, you stop the team from needing to ask you for "just one quick answer." It allows your team to fix issues without needing your input.
Level 3: The Self-Running System
If You Are:
Mastery / Leaders/Bosses. This tests how strong your business is on its own.
What You Do
- Buffer Days: Block off the day before and the day after your vacation for focused work and catching up (no meetings).
- Pre-Meeting: A short, 15-minute chat to talk about problems before they happen.
- Zero Input Rule: A total block on getting new work information; no checking in "just for five minutes."
What You Gain:
Stops Vacation Work Debt: Most people feel more tired after a vacation because of all the waiting work. This system ensures you return to a controlled situation, keeping you rested for longer.
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Guide for You
Individual Staff
Start with Level 1.
Managers/Leads
Aim for Level 2.
Bosses/Founders
Work toward Level 3.
The 3-Step Rest Plan
To truly clear your head, you need more than just "time off"—you need a structure that stops work from sneaking into your personal time. This plan is designed to create a real, physical, and mental wall between your work duties and your rest time.
The Hard Wall
Getting Ready
Choose one specific "Backup Person" for your tasks and send a final status note to your team 24 hours before you leave, clearly saying you won't be available to check anything.
The Digital Guard
While Away
Take off work communication apps (like Slack or Teams) from your phone, and move your work email app icon to a hidden spot or off your main screen entirely.
The Smooth Return
Coming Back
Block your entire first day back on your calendar as a day for "Focused Work" with no meetings, so you can sort through your inbox without feeling pressured by immediate demands.
These three steps work one after the other to make sure you truly step away during your break (Hard Wall & Digital Guard) and protect your fresh energy when you come back (Smooth Return), so that the rest you took actually lasts. For a deeper look at how rest fits into your long-term career, see our guide on work-life integration vs. work-life balance.
The Action Plan for Smooth Work
Changing common work problems into smooth processes lets you step away without stopping momentum or having to pay a big "return cost." If you want to build these habits into your year-round schedule, our guide on how to use your PTO for maximum recharge walks through the planning side in detail.
Approvals Stuck: Work stops because you are the only one allowed to approve money or final designs.
Temporary Authority: Give a team member written permission to approve expenses or make choices up to a certain dollar amount or project stage while you are gone.
The "Urgent" Confusion: Coworkers message you with "quick questions" because they don't know what counts as a real emergency.
The Checklist Guide: Give your team a simple "If/Then" guide. Say clearly what counts as a "Call Me Now" situation (like the website crashing) versus what can wait until you return.
Thoughts Leaking Out: You check your phone secretly during dinner because you worry about missing context or losing track of a deal.
The Video Handoff: Record a short 5-minute video explaining where you left off on your projects. This moves your internal thoughts to your team so you don't feel like you have to keep checking in.
The Return Cost: Spending your first day back stuck in meetings, leaving you to deal with a week's worth of emails late at night.
The Ghost Day: Set your "Out of Office" to end on Tuesday, but actually show up for work on Monday. Use Day 1 as a "quiet" day to clear your inbox and catch up with your team before everyone knows you are back.
The 48-Hour System to Unplug
Do these things in order to make sure you completely check out from work mode to vacation mode without any interruptions.
Inform your team and clients 48 hours ahead of time when you will stop working completely. Clearly state that you won't look at emails or messages after this time so people don't give you "urgent" tasks as you leave.
Give every active project to a specific backup person. Give them a simple one-page guide with needed contacts and an "emergency only" plan so they can handle issues without calling you.
Set up your "Out of Office" replies for email and chat apps. Set your status to "Away" and mention the return date, but also state clearly that you will not read messages sent while you are gone to manage people's hopes.
Turn off all work alerts on your personal phone. Put work apps (like Slack, Teams, or Outlook) into a separate folder on the very last screen of your phone, or delete them completely to stop the urge to "just look quickly."
Physically separate yourself from work by locking your work laptop and gear in a drawer or closet. Keeping these items out of sight ends the mental tie to your job and tells your brain the work time is officially over.
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Common Questions
How do I disconnect from work while on vacation?
The key is to design your absence before you leave, not rely on willpower once you're away. Assign a specific Backup Person with written decision-making authority, create an "If/Then" emergency guide for your team, and delete or hide work apps on your phone.
Block your first day back as meeting-free so you return to a controlled inbox rather than an overwhelming pile. According to a 2025 survey, 52% of workers can't disconnect because they fear the return backlog — this Ghost Day strategy removes that fear entirely.
What should I do if my boss contacts me during vacation?
Before you leave, have a direct conversation about what counts as a real emergency vs. what can wait. Set a clear expectation: you are fully offline, and your Backup Person is empowered to handle routine decisions.
If a message still comes through, avoid replying to anything that isn't a genuine crisis. Answering even one "quick" message signals that your boundaries aren't real, and it invites more interruptions for the rest of your trip.
How do I protect my catch-up day when coworkers know I'm back?
Block your first day back on your digital calendar at least two weeks before you leave. Label it "Focused Work" or "Project Planning."
If someone asks for a meeting, simply say your schedule is full for the day. Using this extra day to clear your inbox and review the Checklist Guide means you deal with the return on your own terms, instead of letting a chaotic inbox dictate your first day back.
Is it bad to check work email once a day on vacation?
For most people, yes. Research from the Journal of Happiness Studies shows that vacation recovery benefits don't fully take hold until after 8 days of genuine rest. Even brief, daily work check-ins keep your stress response activated and block true cognitive recovery.
A once-a-day check might feel like a compromise, but it typically triggers anxiety about what you saw and kills the rest of the day. The better trade-off: tell your team you'll read everything when you return, not before.
How do I stop thinking about work while on vacation?
Intrusive work thoughts usually signal that you left something unresolved. The most effective fix is the Video Handoff: record a short 5-minute video before you leave explaining where you stand on each project. This transfers the mental load out of your head and into your team's hands.
Also consider scheduling a "decompression day" between your last work day and the actual start of your vacation. Even one day of low-key transition activity, a slow morning, a short walk, a meal with family, helps your brain shift gears rather than jolting between modes.
Focus on what matters.
You can't truly rest if you treat your vacation like just a "Hard Stop." Relying only on willpower leads to the "Thoughts Leaking Out" that keeps you attached to your phone and guarantees you'll pay a huge "Return Cost" when you get home. To truly switch off, use a Plan for Having a Backup. Changing your thinking from avoiding work to designing yourself out of the loop is what shows you are a top leader. Giving away power and securing a "Ghost Day" makes the work keep going well even when you aren't there to control it. Stop being the one thing stopping your own career progress.
Make Your Triage GuideFurther Reading
The Myth of Work-Life Balance: Striving for Work-Life Integration Instead
How to Use Your PTO for Maximum Recharge and Avoid Post-Vacation Dread
